Take The Low Seat
When Jesus noticed the guests at a dinner fighting for the seats of honor, He used the moment to teach one of the clearest Kingdom principles we have in Scripture:
“When you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place… For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Luke 14:10–11
Jesus wasn’t just talking about table manners. He was talking about life.
We naturally want the “high seat.” We want recognition. We want to be chosen first. We want to be seen. But Jesus says the opposite path leads to blessing. If you choose the high seat for yourself, you risk being humbled publicly lowered in front of everyone. But if you choose the low seat, the Host, Jesus Himself, will honor you in His timing.
This is the Kingdom principle: Humility leads to promotion. Pride leads to humiliation.
God is never looking for the person who pushes their way to the top. He is looking for the one who quietly chooses obedience, faithfulness, and humility, even when no one else notices. It is the low seat that God fills first. It is the low seat that shapes your heart. It is the low seat that prepares you for everything God wants to give you.
Questions for Reflection
"Where am I currently seeking the 'high seat' in my life, whether it's in my career, relationships, or social circles? What specific actions reveal my desire for recognition or control?"
"How can I intentionally choose the 'low seat' this week in a specific situation, prioritizing the needs and recognition of others over my own desire to be seen or acknowledged?"
Application
Practice Active Listening: In your next group conversation or meeting, commit to asking questions and actively listening to others' input rather than dominating the discussion or trying to steer it toward your own ideas. Focus on making others feel heard and valued.
Serve Anonymously: Identify a specific task or need around your home, workplace, or community that often goes unnoticed (e.g., restocking the office breakroom supplies, taking out the trash without being asked, sending an encouraging note to someone who works behind the scenes). Do it without seeking praise or mentioning it to others.